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So, your suggestion is that if someone harasses you cruelly, you shut up shop, never talk to anyone about it, password protect everything and never mention anything about your personal life again?

I personally am glad they've posted this, because I want to know what type of shit anons are saying on this forum. I want to know what type of place this is. I also want to know if something is going on to affect the regulars here and how they post, if they are comfortable sharing that, because I would like to think we're all a friendly bunch (generally) who want to make F!S a better place, not a fearful one.

But each to their own.

Wow, way to fail at reading comprehension. I didn't say to just shut up and take it. It's the equivalent if you found out some unknown person said a shitty thing about you at work. Are you going to obsess about it, go all passive aggressive, make a memo about it, and send it to the entire workplace? Fuck no. What's the point? You'll just annoy your co-workers. If they were constantly doing it while you were within earshot, most people (who aren't afraid of confrontations) would say something right then and there. It'd be appropriate. This is the former, not the latter. And it doesn't affect the community, just a couple members (who arguably aren't all that well liked on a whole). What I said was to deal with it yourself by finding your own solutions. One of which is to "ignore the haters." You might want to make a stink about every person who says something bad about you or you could just not give a fuck and move on with your life. This is an anonymous community. It's going to happen and if you've been here long enough then you know that it happens. Just look at the latest anon meme where there's a post about regulars. Half of it is negative. "But, oh, it was a personal attack. That's different." It really wasn't a big deal. Some anon who probably doesn't even know them that well calls her fat and airs some (uninteresting) dirty laundry. This place isn't middle school. Let that shit go. And I'd argue that F!S would be a better community if it didn't give me more reasons to dislike some of the named users. But as you said, "each to their own."

How is someone supposed to "say something right then and there" if a) the person in question is anon and b) the post gets deleted? Due to those two factors, you've set up an impossible situation. Ignoring it means letting this person continue to do what they're doing, but confronting it means "airing dirty laundry" (because the only way you can confront an anonymous person whose posts gets deleted is to make a post that the entire community can see).

Also, this is someone who is apparently going into a space, pretending to be friendly with these users, getting information from them, and then going off and being a fucker about it. You really don't see anything wrong with that? You really don't see how that effects the community, considering that people from the community go to this space, and that people aside from these users have gotten shit? You think it's middle school-type behavior for someone to give a heads up about what's going on and defend themselves, but you don't think it's middle school-type behavior to pretend to be nice to someone in order to fuck with them?

How is someone supposed to "say something right then and there" if a) the person in question is anon and b) the post gets deleted?

You don't. l2read.

Also, this is someone who is apparently going into a public space, pretending to be friendly with these users, getting information from them, and then going off and being a fucker about it.

FTFY. Also, no proof that's what is actually happening. It's just speculation.

And I didn't say I saw nothing wrong with it or even that I condoned it. But this is a public space on the internet. It's completely naive to think that there aren't going to be trolls/haters here. What I said was there's no point pursuing such idiocies. Just like there's no real point for you to argue with me lol. Nor is there a point for me to explain to you things I did/didn't say, but I'm bored and I've got time. So, welcome to the internet!

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