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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-24 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2760 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2760 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Penny Dreadfuls]


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[True Blood, Game of Thrones]


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[Tamora Pierce]


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[Free!]


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[Ed Sheeran and Taylor Swift]


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[Masterchef]


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[Game of Thrones]


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(Anonymous) 2014-07-25 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Eh. I've seen too many Nice Guys and Nice Girls (or in extension, the friends of Nice Guys and Nice Girls who get a watered down version of events) use that as an excuse to dog on their crush or their crush's gf/bf. Confirmation bias tends to cloud people's judgment on who is an asshole and who isn't.

It's really a case by case thing and isn't nearly as common as the stereotype that nice people date jerks would have you believe.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-25 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
It's a common excuse, I agree. However, I've had plenty of friends to whom I am not attracted and do not want to bang/be in a relationship fall for a jerk who treats them badly. I'm happy in my own relationship, but one of my best friends (we are both female and straight) has a husband who is a major douchecanoe. She knows my feelings on the subject, just as she knows that if she ever needs me, I'll be there.

It's sad, but it happens.