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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-07-26 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2762 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2762 ⌋

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Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-26 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Sexual compatibility is a fairly large part of any long term relationship.
If he can't gave you what you need and is too close minded, bigoted or just plain selfish to let you get it elsewhere, then fuck him.
Do what you want, but you have needs and they are important.

Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-26 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
It is not close minded, bigoted, or selfish to expect monogamy in (what i'm assuming is) a monogamous relationship.

Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-27 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, really. he's not interested in an open relationship or a threesome. if i want a relationship with him, and I do, then it's something i live with. it's called compromise. personally, i think people are too damn quick to break up because their relationship isn't perfect. well, fuck that. i put a lot of years into this relationship and i'm not just going to leave because i can't have sex with women whenever i want.

Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-27 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
Hi Chard.

Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-27 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
oh god. please don't insult me like that. /notchard

Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-27 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Stella?
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Re: TMI Thread

[personal profile] chardmonster 2014-07-27 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
Hi moron. How's tricks?

Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-27 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
not gay enough. that anon wasn't me, the OP. me, the vagina thirsting OP, likes you.

Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-27 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
You know, one of the nasty stereotypes bisexuals have to deal with is "Oh, but if you're bi, doesn't that mean you could never be faithful in a monogamous relationship?"

So, basically the exact same shit you're spouting. Save it.
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Re: TMI Thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-07-27 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
wow you are going way too far there, anon. I highly doubt OP appreciates you insulting her husband for not doing anything wrong that we can tell.

Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-27 10:26 am (UTC)(link)
I read your post like a talking vagina was saying it. With a flappy puppet mouth

Re: TMI Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-07-27 03:53 pm (UTC)(link)
...no. That's fucking stupid.

You're basically saying, "partners who are interested in monogamy are selfish bigots," which is complete bullshit. You've also just managed to rationalize the fuck out of cheating.

Sexual compatibility is important, yes, but here's the thing: turn-ons and sex drives change over time. Compatibility has to be actively negotiated in order for a long-term relationship to work. If someone makes a habit of ducking out the second they start encountering obstacles in the bedroom, then every single relationship they have is going to have a guaranteed expiration date. It's basically "I don't want to be in love unless it's PERFECT and super easy all the time" logic.