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⌈ Secret Post #2765 ⌋

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I kind of want to marry you for this.

Thank you, I'me flattered. I was actually concerned I'd come off too angry about it all, tbh.

Whenever I see people acting like SJWs are just "innocent people who are upset about oppression" I get kinda mad because I've seen what harm they've done to innocent people. Like I understand being upset at being wronged but that's no reason to send anon hate and death threats to some 13 year old.

Edited 2014-07-30 03:58 (UTC)

youre implying i said any of that. i didnt, nor would i, because im fully aware oppressed people can be hurtful and dangerous in their own right. youre taking the criticism awfully hard, for some reason.

Maybe I'm just annoyed because I didn't come here to get the third degree about what I find annoying.

I don't see anyone else coming up to someone being all "but how dare you be bothered by that"

"HMMM I find it interesting that of all the things to choose you mentioned women venting about men when men do all this stuff, and you didn't even mention anything bad that men do...it's just...interesting...."

In our conversation you may not have said it outright but reading between the lines your apparent attitude is "why are you bothered by this, they're just joking and VENTING" and justifying all the things I've brought up, many with the dismissive attitude of "well I've never seen it"

and one of the posts was straight up "well why didn't you mention being bothered by this this and this OTHER thing?"

im not giving you a third degree. i just mentioned some of the shit you listed were obvious jokes, unaware at the time that you didnt care. you stressed the grimness of some of their sentiments too so i just pointed out that "men," in this case, since you took offense to the joke of them disappearing, often instigate angry comments by raping, murdering, assaulting, abusing, etc on a regular basis and yet you didnt mention them, you mentioned something correlated though so i thought it was relevant. so i was just wondering why, and youve given me the runaround, and i can tell you arent really open to self reflection on the matter.

youre misunderstanding my replies to you if you think im miffed that you cringe at some "sjw" shit. i even said several comments ago that i understand that, and i share that frustration sometimes. so it's not a "how dare you be bothered by that" issue, as youre making it out to be.

Do you even know what a capital letter is?

We get it. You're an SJW , you don't have to hide it anymore.

That is some truly excellent silencing tactic you've got going on. You could totally work for Fox News.

it would be silencing if i told op they werent allowed or shouldnt take issue with what theyre complaining about. not only did i agree to some extent with their gripes but i also made it fully clear that i wasnt puzzled by their gripes alone.

Hey, no need to prove to me how good you are at silencing others' opinions, I already mentioned it.
You didn't say "you're not allowed to take offense," you just said "these comments you take issue with that I can't see are obviously just jokes and I judge you for taking them too seriously" and "you take offense to these things, but you haven't mentioned taking offense to these other, worse things"

That's silencing. It truly is. And now you're trying to silence me with the whole "no, it's only silencing if I use these specific words, obvious context and intent don't matter."

not once did i say i was judging op. why would i judge them if i agreed? if anything my comments were meant to generate more discussion, not prevent it. you dont seem to understand what silencing is. disagreeing with someone or making an observation are not silencing tactics. your complaint sounds more like "you arent allowed to disagree with me," which i am, and i will.

Nice ?????? arguing. Where'd you learn your moonlogic from?

is that how A Voice For Men taught you to argue? very cute.

Lol, figures you'd respond because you can't stand not having the last word. That was literally a throw away comment (with some of your obixious wording to jabie) just to see if you'd bite at two day old wank that everyone but you has moved on from.

Also nice job bringing in your hatred of MRAs when my comment had not to do with them.

i wasnt aware that your flounce was my responsibility to secure.

i get emails for your comments. you continuously have to refresh this thread. not sure how your comments being obtrusive to me is any "worse" than you obsessing over when my next reply will be.

but if you arent here to actually discuss the thread then fine, i wont indulge you any further. i refused a reply to everybody else who wasnt interested in the topic. empirically i have no trouble leaving without the last word, but youll see whatever you want to see.

continously refresh threads

Don't flatter yourself. It's not that obtrustive to check if a old post has a higher post count than where it left off or I could be using a sock account to notify via e-mail too. Nevermind the gap between your reply and mine.

actually discuss the thread
What's there to left to discuss? How you shitted yourself over what jabie cringed over and why she wasn't cringing over what you thought she should be while you obsessively argued over it and still don't have the sense to quit? If you insist.

Look, saying "Oh but what I'VE seen of it are only joke posts so there are no people who actually do this" is about as great as women going "but I'VE never experienced harassment by men so misogynistic men don't exist".

im sure some of them arent really jokes, and i stated as much. it's just really not as common as you lot love to make it out to be - certainly not enough to warrant a deep community-wide focus.

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If you're trying to give "SJW's" an even worse name, you're doing a good job of it.

Thank you. I honestly didn't expect this.

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