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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-02 03:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2769 ]


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(Anonymous) 2014-08-02 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
So why are you acting like anyone is forcing transness on her?
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-08-02 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Because I guess I find the speculation itself bad enough? Just let the kid be a kid?

And I have seen some blogs that DID claim she MUST be trans, but I don't count those as professional media.

Seriously, just imagine being that kid - regardless of what gender or sexual orientation she'll turn out being and reading those articles. It must be really creepy finding out random strangers were obsessed enough with your gender identity to write about it profusely.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-02 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, claiming to know that a child you never met is trans is a bad thing. Assuming nobody is ever trans, vehemently arguing against suggestions that someone (even a child you never met) may be trans is also bad. Because they might be. This argument has nothing to do with transness, it's about leaving celebrities' kids to grow up in peace. If a shitty newspaper clutches it's pearls over a girl liking boy toys it's ok to suggest that trans people exist and don't deserve the pearl clutching.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-03 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't argue against the idea that the child may be trans. I would argue against any suggestion that the child IS trans or any attempt to use any kind of distantly-perceived information as evidence one way or the other. I think there's a distinction there.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-02 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
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I agree. I've seen quite a bit of claims (General media: She's doing femininity wrong so bad parenting, Online community: He's obviously trans so bad world for not accepting my dictate) and it sucks every way you see it. Children should be allowed to develop and grow without feeling pressure from outside forces to conform to whatever those outside forces believe they should be/do.