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Re: da
(Anonymous) 2014-08-17 01:47 am (UTC)(link)My mother often blamed my brother and I for the fact that we were stuck in a backwater town after my father fell ill and died of cancer. Oh no, it had nothing to do with not finishing her degree and getting a real job instead of simply living off of a dead man's benefits, or not making connections with out of town visitors, or not reaching out to family in better locations. Nope, it's the stupid 7-year-old and 10-year-old for whining about how they didn't want to leave their friends.
I can kind of understand feeling all alone and scared if your spouse suddenly dies, but motherfucker. See a therapist or unload on your friends. Don't involve your fucking kids and for fuck's sake don't blame them for your fears or for the fact you can't own your decisions. Even if you don't "mean it," it doesn't matter, your kids believe they are bad and did something wrong, and if you don't acknowledge that much, that kind of thing will creep into their relationships and lives well into adulthood.
Damn, sorry for tl;dr, I get stupid ranty about this shit sometimes.
sa
(Anonymous) 2014-08-17 01:50 am (UTC)(link)Re: sa
(Anonymous) 2014-08-17 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)Re: da
(Anonymous) 2014-08-17 07:30 pm (UTC)(link)They still blame us btw.
I'm sorry you had your Mum's inability to cope placed on your shoulders, anon. :(