[ SECRET POST #2790 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2790 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Words that have lost meaning to you?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm in a sort of similar boat as you: find people attractive, masturbate some, but not really interested in actual sex or relationships. I'm also not if the lack of desire isn't there because my history with meds, weird hang-ups about sex from the family's beliefs, or my poor ability to connect with other people.

I don't feel comfortable with asexual because the definition is really muddied but the other labels don't really feel right either. I generally roll with "not interested atm" because mostly because I want to distance myself from the asexual community but also with its muddiness. Especially with the aromantic bisexual stuff that doesn't seem much different from a relationship or friendship depending on which side it leans on.

My own personal definition of asexual "is would you fuck someone you liked given the chance?" Maybe that helps some?

Re: Words that have lost meaning to you?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

It does and it doesn't. It wouldn't matter if I liked them - I am well aware only certain kinks and fetishes arouse me, so what would matter was if I trusted them enough to do those things to me without actually hurting me in the long run/turning it against me. Like =/= trust for me (I can absolutely like someone and distrust them, or dislike someone but trust them).

So the person doesn't matter, the experience does.