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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-25 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2792 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2792 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-08-25 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd say it depends. Fantasy and fiction are not necessarily unrealistic. If I see a guy who I really like in a story and decide that this is it, I'm not going to date anybody who isn't at least as kind and caring as this guy is, and I don't find anyone like that, is that necessarily unhealthy? Should I settle for more of an asshole? Because ~reality~?

Giving up and declaring that the world will never meet that standard is probably not a good sign, I agree... but that sounds like a sign of depression and not a sign of delusion to me. Either way I don't think having the standard in itself is bad.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-25 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Gonna repeat what the person said above it. If those standards aren't realistic, then yeah. And it sounds like OP might have an unrealistically idealistic view of what people should be like based on fiction, combined with an unrealistically negative view of actual, real life people who they have judged as universally unworthy.