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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-26 08:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2793 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2793 ⌋

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Re: *sobs*

(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
I see no other choice, really. I'm so much at the end of my rope that I've actually started hoping for them to die. Then I can live off their money without their pressure or abuse. Is that...does that make me unsympathetic? I think the only way I can ever be happy is if something happens to them...

Re: *sobs*

(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
You probably don't really want your parents to die. Speaking from experience, it's a lot more painful and terrifying than being unsure about what you're going to do with your life.
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Re: *sobs*

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-08-27 09:08 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, sorry for the late reply but I fell asleep on the couch as it was late here.

Look, I'm not sure if you mean that, or if you're just upset - but in any case, it's not something you can count on. Presuming you're in college, your parents are likely not of the age where they will drop dead and die. Waiting for an inheritance, as appealing as it sounds, is not a great strategy.

The best way for you to be happy is to become independent from them and find a way to have at least a limited income (limited incomes cn be compensated with roommates and the like).


Try to devise a plan, anon. Try to find out what you could do, part-time if full time stresses you, that could give you the basic means for survival.

I'd also re-check qualifying for disability. Don't know how it is where you live, but here you have "percentages" of being incapacitated for work, and I had a friend who was actually on 33 percent.Which is not something you might be able o live on, but every bit counts, right?