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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-28 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #2795 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2795 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Law & Order: Criminal Intent]


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[Fred Astaire/Ginger Rogers]


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[Jeeves and Wooster]


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[Yahtzee/Zero Punctuation]


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[Markiplier]


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[Jackie Chan Adventures]


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[The Parent Trap]


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[Alexander]


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[Starsky and Hutch]











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Re: How do you define passive aggressive?

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2014-08-29 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
So where would "correcting someone a lot" fall into that? Because my boss does that with me and I've done that with other people, but my boss seems very nice about it and I know I mean well when I do that with other people, but I've been called passive-aggressive and one of my friends said my boss sounds passive-aggressive. I've gotten the impression that correcting anyone on anything is somehow passive-aggressive, but that seems like overreacting/not quite right.
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Re: How do you define passive aggressive?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-08-29 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
I do not think it is passive-agressive in itsef, though some passive-agressive people use correcting as masked criticism that is basically malicious.

If you feel neither of you are, then chances are that the person calling you that might be recognizing it as part of a pattern of someone else they know, even if your motivations are completely different. If that makes sense.
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Re: How do you define passive aggressive?

[personal profile] nyxelestia 2014-08-29 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
It does, but just to make sure I'm interpreting it right: because they've been passive-aggressively criticized a lot (by someone who was doing so maliciously), they assume all criticism or just a lot of criticism is the same thing, even when it's not?
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Re: How do you define passive aggressive?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-08-29 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
That would be my guess, yes.