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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-31 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2798 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2798 ⌋

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Re: Women who blame "the other woman" but not the guy who cheated...

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-08-31 08:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Neither party involved is mentally ill or otherwise incapacitated. And as far as I can tell it's not even an affair, but a one-night stand sort of thing.

Re: Women who blame "the other woman" but not the guy who cheated...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-31 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, just thinking out loud I guess. All depends on the situation really, it can be the other woman's fault, but yeah, most cases people need to learn to blame their partners.

Re: Women who blame "the other woman" but not the guy who cheated...

(Anonymous) 2014-09-01 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
I'm just going to quibble with your wording "it can be the other woman's fault." I'd say the other woman is obviously a contributing factor, but the cheating cannot take place without the cooperation of the straying husband.

Who betrayed you more? The husband. He's the one who made promises to you. Doesn't mean the other woman's behaviour isn't skeevy, but it still seems like some women will tar and feather ONLY the other woman, as if their man wouldn't have strayed except for that scheming hussy.

tl;dr, it takes two to tango.