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⌈ Secret Post #2798 ⌋

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Re: Women who blame "the other woman" but not the guy who cheated...

[anonymous4]

I'm so sorry to hear that.

I was exactly the same at first, and I'm not sure why it changed. I think it's mainly that time has helped.

But I also made a conscious decision, at some point, to talk about the happier times to other people -- you know when people are telling anecdotes? I'd say, "That reminds me of when D & I did such and such..." It surprised me at first, and I'm not sure if it made the others uncomfortable, but I do think it's helped me recover my past.

It's only recently, though, (in fact, I think today was actually the first time!) that I suddenly realised I was having a happy memory of doing something by myself, since he left. I hadn't thought that would ever happen.

But, unfortunately, I think time has been the main thing.