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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-01 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2799 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2799 ⌋

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Re: In-law rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-02 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Oh men will always say they don't want kids, right up til they are given one. Then they go all doting dad and want more. Specially if it is a daughter.

Re: In-law rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-02 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
Or men will be SO excited about having having a daughter. Shower their pregnant wife with affection and talk about how much they want kids.

And then once the kid is born, they'll become angry and bitter and constantly talk about how awful their life is and how they wish they could go back and change things.

Like my dad does!
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Re: In-law rant

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-09-02 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
My dad left his firstborn's life when she was a toddler. His parents in turn abandoned him when he was a child. I have no illusions about magical parental bonding.
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Re: In-law rant

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-09-02 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Ha, yes, sure - and how would you go about that, wise one? Puncture the damn condoms? Yeah - I'm sure he wouldn't hate me for that. And be totally okay with me not having an abortion even though I always said I would. And not just cut off contact when he realizes I've gone batshit insane /s.

Re: In-law rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-02 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, if you are with someone who'd try and force you to have an abortion or be a deadbeat dad then that is not a healthy relationship regardless of children. You need to go find someone else right now. There are plenty of guys out there who won't try to control your womb or be a proud deadbeat.
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Re: In-law rant

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-09-02 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, honey, no. Nobody is controlling my womb. In a healthy relationship BOTH parties agree on having kids - and it's not one of them who sabotages birth control to force the other into parenthood.

Which, for the record, is reproductive coercion.

And he couldn't "force" me to have an abortion - but it's what we agreed we'd do, so if I wouldn't, I wouldn't fault him for leaving. If the roles were reversed, I'd do the same.
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Re: In-law rant

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-09-02 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
The person acting like they'd like to control Kallanda's womb here is not her boyfriend.

(As an aside: I really do think you're a troll and I think you're doing a pretty good job. You sound so much more believable than most. A+. But since many have already pointed it out, maybe you should quit while you're ahead.)

Re: In-law rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-02 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
LOL oh, honey. *pat*