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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-01 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2799 ]


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kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: In-law rant

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-09-02 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, we'll see what the future holds. Thing is I'm generally on good terms with her. We're not friends, but generally polite to each other, give a present on Christmas etc. I've had perfectly fine conversations with her. But people being different to my face than behind my back just irk me.
elaminator: (Rat Queens: Betty (exasperated))

Re: In-law rant

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-09-02 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of people are like that, unfortunately. It's harder to be rude to someone's face then it is to say those critical things to someone else. Neither of those are great options, but it's unpleasant and awkward having to interact with people you know are feeling completely different than they let on.

Re: In-law rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-03 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
Some parents have a very hard time letting go of the idea that their children are not extensions of themselves and will not do everything they want out of life. They're idiots. Having kids is good for some people, not good for others. If you don't want kids, you don't want kids and if you can't get her to understand that, your SO needs to have a sit-down talk with her, Serious Face and all. It has to come from him, if it doesn't, if it comes from you, she'll always hold onto the idea that it's you and not her son. He needs to be the one to disabuse her of that notion.