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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-01 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2799 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2799 ⌋

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[personal profile] saku 2014-09-02 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
because bringing them up makes it sound like a "real vs fake" argument where her bad opinion holds less merit BECAUSE of the implants, when in reality it should hold not merit because it's just a nasty opinion in general. jut pasting IMPLANTS over her ass without proper context CAN be seen as body shaming. if you feel the need to bring them up in this context then there's a better way to do it, even if i disagree i seem to be the only one here, so i'm not going to act like you can't, there's just a better way to discuss it ie. how you've personally laid it down which unfortunately didnt happen in the context of the secret.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-02 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
But that's. Not what you said. You complained that the implants were brought up at all which is a whole other basket of fish.
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[personal profile] saku 2014-09-02 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
i know it's not what i said, but i'm obviously the only person here who thinks bringing them up doesn't have to be made relevant. everyone else seems to think it's vital or necessary, so yeah i'm going to complain, but i'm not expecting people who clearly disagree to change their mind about it.
Edited 2014-09-02 00:55 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2014-09-02 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
When you shame people for not making the changes to themselves that you have, those changes are relevant.
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[personal profile] saku 2014-09-02 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
do you have a source where she's explicitly said that she's shaming skinny women for not changing themselves? i think you're making an assumption about her message when really i think it's as basic as "you're skinny so fuck you." that's different than saying "you didn't change yourself to be like me so fuck you."

i feel like i'm just not making my point clear at all which is pretty much the story of my life so i think i'd be doing everybody a service if i just flounced from this thread bc no amount of going back and forth will produce an agreement. sorry

(Anonymous) 2014-09-03 05:06 pm (UTC)(link)
because changing herself is what she had to do to stop being skinny and is the only reason the body she thinks qualifies her to pass that judgment exists. it's not rocket science. people don't always spell out their exact intentions in Shakespearean soliloquys, but this isn't even subtle, it's 2+2.