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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-02 06:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2800 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2800 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Song of the Lioness]


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[Genso Suikoden II]


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[Gordon Ramsay]


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05.
[Outlast: Whistleblower]


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[Chris Pine/Zachary Quinto]


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[Kaizoku Sentai Gokaiger]


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[Johnny Wander/Lucky Penny]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Daft Punk]


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[Discworld]


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[Grant Imahara, Kari Byron and Tory Belleci]


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[The Hobbit]







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Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-02 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Some people always mix "triggers" with "things that gross me out." Now, if the scene of the Doctor pulling out hairs triggered a deep set in memory of the writer where he/she had a parent who always abused them by pulling out hairs, one by one, I can how that scene would be a valid trigger. But I am guessing it's more like, "Ew, that's gross" than anything else.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-02 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Apparently it triggered a form of self harm? More details in the link listed below.

But I still think that if you're triggered by someone intentionally pulling out two hairs, you should see a doctor for help.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-09-02 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the question, as always is: what can you reasonably expect? How far can "the world" reasonably accommodate you?

I think there are limits to it, and I say this as someone who self-harmed.

I regularly am exposed to stuff that is actually uncomfortably/emotional to me in that regard - and sometimes it's just that I choose not to heed trigger warning, but sometimes it's a show or a film where I did not necessarily expect it. I expected it, but not the way it was done, and it will hit home.

I understand it's more tricky if it's a family friendly show than a horror movie, but still, even there you can't expect to be shielded fully. Especially as we know the Doctor does actually have some issues.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-03 06:26 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, I HAVE trichotillomania, and I'm going to go ahead and call bullshit on this. (Or call Daily Mail on it, as they say in Britain.) Mine is relatively mild, but I still pull out the tweezers when I'm around other people if I feel a hair I can't leave alone, and there've been times I've had scabs on my cheeks from trying to dig one of the little fuckers out. And it did not cross my mind AT ALL while I was watching that scene; the idea that it would seems pretty far-fetched to me.