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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-04 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2802 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2802 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Warriors]


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[Harry Potter]


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[Sweet Fuse: At Your Side]


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[Stargate Atlantis]


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[Black M]


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[The Lyon's Den]


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[Hannah Simone]


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[Bouletcorp]


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Re: Complaning thread!

[personal profile] sarillia 2014-09-05 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
I had the same history of being told I was really smart my whole life and then crashing when I got to college. For me, it helped when I found away to let go of my fear of failing. I asked myself what the worst thing that could happen would be if I was to fail and I looked at my other options and found ones that I could live with. So then when failing became a viable option, I didn't stress out about it as much and I was more motivated to do the work and not so wrapped up in my "I can't do this, I'm such an idiot" anxiety. I just tried my best and if that wasn't good enough, oh well, but my best turned out to be better than it seemed at first when I was frozen in anxiety.

It could be that college really isn't right for you. Lots of talented people never went to college. It's not the only valid path. If you're really not happy then you can look into other options. Think about what you really want in life and what it will take to get there. You'll be more motivated if you're working toward something you care about than if you're just doing what you feel like you're supposed to. But if you do that and find that you really want to make this work, I'm sure you can find some way to motivate yourself and learn the skills you need.

I hope you find something that works for you. Sorry for rambling about myself so much.