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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-09 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2807 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2807 ⌋

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Re: Where do you stand?

[personal profile] sarillia 2014-09-10 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
I've run into that problem with a friend of mine. I've had a lot of mental health problems (and other health problems), to the point where my life isn't where I wanted it to be by now because I've had to basically put it on hold several times, and the way I deal with it is different from how he wants to deal with his problems. I prefer to remind myself of the things that are still within my power and tell myself that I always have choices even if they are limited by my problems, but when I try to share that mindset with my friend he decides I'm downplaying how bad his problems really are. I can understand the frustration because there really are people who think you can just get over it, but I'd think you can find a balance somewhere between forcing yourself to be an inspiration who never let anything get in the way of your dreams! (I have a special hate for the pressure to do that since I ended up with arthritis that way) and completely giving up.
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