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⌈ Secret Post #2808 ⌋

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[Daria]

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[Hannibal]

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[Breaking Bad]

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[Pride and Prejudice]

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[James May from Top Gear]

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[GentleWhispering]

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[Little Women]

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[Psycho-Pass]

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[johnny's entertainment / j&a]

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I wasn't trying to be rude, like I stated. If you're wondering, I'm not the same anon that was bothering jaybie before about OCs. I love OCs really, I have a few myself.

I was saying what it sounded like to go in a thread where people are saying character types they like to inform them "I have several characters like that." It comes off as wanting backpats for doing it right or showing off your OCs. I'm not telling jaybie to stop, and other people might not mind, and like I stated I'm sure it's unintentional on her part, but that's how it's coming off to me. I thought she might like to know that before the anon from yesterday comes in to bash her for talking about OCs again.

(reply from suspended user)

NAYRT

It's partly that Jaybie is starting to come off like one of those self-pubbed authors who butt into unrelated book discussions with "If you liked [book of the moment] you should check out MY book which you can order for $18.99 from PublishAmerica!!" And then they go off on a long tangent describing their ground-breaking plot and totally fresh and different characters--which are just like everybody else's ground-breaking plot and fresh, different characters.

Sounds more like you're trying to censor her. At least *to me*.

She can talk about what she wants and if the anon from yesterday comes around, she'll deal with it. But if one more anon adds to the pile of shit that she went through yesterday, she might start doubting herself and how she participates in conversations. Not cool.

For what it's worth, I had the same impression you did, and was debating whether I should say something or not.

That's how it comes off to me as well. You're not the only one.

Agreed. There's a time and a place for talking about your own works and it's important to be cognizant of that, otherwise you end up coming off as one of those self-absorbed people who only want to talk about themselves when the topic of conversation isn't about that.

Wow.

It sure is easy to keep piling on judgement to someone who's already left

( http://fandomsecrets.dreamwidth.org/1077090.html?thread=779890018#cmt779890018 )

That's too bad, honestly. I didn't see that when I commented; I just responded because it was a pattern of behavior that I too had noticed. They seemed like a genuinely nice person with a lot of enthusiasm but who just didn't know when to stop talking about their characters, which was why I warned that that kind of thing can make people think that you're self-absorbed even if that isn't the case.

I wish they'd listened to the advice they'd been given to tone it down a little rather than leave, but their choice.

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