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fandomsecrets2014-09-16 07:01 pm
[ SECRET POST #2814 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2814 ⌋
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Re: Moments that make you cringe looking back
(Anonymous) 2014-09-17 02:58 am (UTC)(link)1) make sure your concrit is to the point without being snarky or personal
2) quote and cite examples of what you mean
3) sandwich your criticism between two layers of praise
4) but don't lie or blow smoke up someone's ass
Sometimes finding something nice to say is difficult. Try framing it as "I really liked your idea" or "I thought you did X well". And don't offer to do this again unless you know what the fallout can be. Frankly, I'd be annoyed if someone did that and didn't state it was their fic. It feels sneaky.
Re: Moments that make you cringe looking back
I have no problem giving honest, balanced feedback, and it may be that the OP doesn't either - the problem is they didn't know they were giving the author feedback as opposed to just talking about some random person's fic.
So the author did kind of put them on the spot...