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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-17 07:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #2815 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2815 ⌋

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[John Green]


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(Hemlock Grove)


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[Russell Edwards' Naming Jack the Ripper]


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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-09-18 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Is there any way for you to learn to drive? I feel like there might be some sort of legal recourse for that, since isn't it your right as an adult to do so? Is there a bus that goes near your place of work so you can move out and support yourself while you're learning? I know that may not be feasible, but it's worth considering if you haven't.

I'm 24, live with my folks, and am currently actively searching for full-time jobs so I can leave (I work part-time and will start paying rent very soon, per our agreement). I wasn't planning on staying here this long, but I know it won't be that much longer. I kinda feel you on the whole "it's MY HOUSE" thing since I think my mom does sometimes use that as leverage in inappropriate ways, but it's not nearly to the extreme as your folks. I'd be so mad.

Anyway, it doesn't sound like you're being bratty at all, from what you've told us at least - you just want to be able to make normal adult decisions about your life. They're treating you like a child, and how are you ever going to be independent if they won't treat you like an adult? I hope you're able to get away soon and have a healthier relationship with your folks from a financially independent distance.

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-09-18 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Hmm The buses don't go that far out sadly. I wish they did though.

I kinda feel you on the whole "it's MY HOUSE" thing since I think my mom does sometimes use that as leverage in inappropriate ways, but it's not nearly to the extreme as your folks. I'd be so mad.


TBH for me it just makes me feel kinda...powerless. It's frustrating.

Yeah...I'm thinking about maybe moving out to Virgnia if I could.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-09-18 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
What's in Virginia? Do you have family there?

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-09-18 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
That's where my boyfriend will be moving. ^^;
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-09-18 03:17 am (UTC)(link)
Is it far from where you are now?

Also, if I may ask, what part of Virginia? (This is just curiosity, since I was born in VA and currently have several family members living there)

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-09-18 03:20 am (UTC)(link)
Nope. It's right above us.

Not sure might have to ask again.