[ SECRET POST #2820 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2820 ⌋

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

[(Anonymous)]

She's said herself up in the thread that she's more hurt by the dismissal and easy dropping than the cosplay.

Feeling a way doesn't make someone an asshole unless they do or act in that manner, but actions =/= thoughts to me. Maybe I'm in the minority on that?

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

[(Anonymous)]

But it's not dismissal: the OP is choosing to view it as dismissal, which is not the same. The friend simply said she can't afford to do it and doesn't want to get into the argument the OP apparently wants to have about it. And we have no way of knowing whether or not it was an "easy" decision for the friend to drop the cosplay plans, either

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

[(Anonymous)]

I don't want to have an argument about it. That's why I posted here anonymously.

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

[(Anonymous)]

no, I see that you didn't--I was unfairly attributing another poster's idea of what friends owe each other to you. you were actually fairly sensible about wanting a little perspective. I'm sorry about participating in the dogpile, because I'm one of the people above who thought you were being bratty. I still think you're worrying unnecessarily about her not valuing the friendship, though. You may not be doing this one thing together now, but that doesn't mean that you can never do it at some future date, or that there are no other fun things for you to do.

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

[(Anonymous)]

It's fine, and you and everyone who pointed that out are right.

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

[(Anonymous)]

I hope things work out between you, and that you get to do your cosplay together sometime.

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

[(Anonymous)]

Thank you.

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

[(Anonymous)]

Sorry, someone suggested taking a step back, so I was, but then I realized a lot of comments had been added, and went to check.