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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-22 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2820 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2820 ⌋

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Re: Here is some perspective, op!

(Anonymous) 2014-09-23 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
i stand corrected, you said "because friends talk about things." but that does rather imply that the person who doesn't want to discuss something like this is not much of a friend

and it certainly does sound like you would judge someone for not doing so. perhaps you wouldn't label them a terrible person without a redeeming feature, but you clearly think that not "opening up a dialog" about her decision is not the action of a true friend, so you sound every bit as judgy as the people who are calling the op selfish and bratty

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

(Anonymous) 2014-09-23 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
Good friends and true friends aren't the same thing. For example, and purely just as an example, not as a definition, to be clear, a true friend doesn't have to be a good friend all the time, but will pull through for you when push comes to shove.

You're reading a whole lot into my words that aren't there, and seem hellbent on continuing to do so, and I don't know why. Should we discontinue? I don't think we're understanding each other.

Re: Here is some perspective, op!

(Anonymous) 2014-09-23 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
And you're engaging in a whole lot of hairsplitting, but we may as well discontinue. I don't think we have anything to say to one another.