I actually agree. It is possible to tell someone who has real problems with their gender from someone who is in it for the "KAWAII BISHIE! I'D BE SO CUTE IN YAOI" aspect. Then there are those "FTM"s who have such low self esteem from either being fat, ugly, or both, that they wish they were another person so they pretend to be a boy with a different name, but that's a whole different can of worms. I hate both types.