[ SECRET POST #2823 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2823 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Advice Column

[nayance]

I don't think there's anything inheritely weird about it, but if you do, and then don't want to do it for whatever reason, don't. It sounds like an imminent clusterfuck waiting to happen, and even if she is in a fragile state, you shouldn't feel obligated to do something that will make you uncomfortable or awkward, especially when it's to do with things like sex or relationships or WHATEVER.

Tell her you're not interested, tell her why, and if she keeps pushing for it then tell her to lay off because if you don't want it, it'll just be REALLY awkward. Contrary to what movies seem to think, trying to set someone up who's just not that into it is not very pleasant for anyone.

Re: Advice Column

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks. I need to just tell her I'm not interested but she sometimes gives me a hard time about not being in a relationship and I don't want to give her any more of a reason. (Even aside from thinking this particular situation is weird, I'm not sure I'm interested in relationships in general...I'm confused and I'm not sure but I think I might be asexual.) Plus she's always complaining about her boyfriend drama and how all the men want her and it's so annoying and it just makes me feel kind of crappy.

I need to just do it but I'm imagining having that conversation and her making fun of me. Which is ridiculous because we're grown adults and not middle schoolers but that's how this is making me feel. Ugh.