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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-26 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2824 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2824 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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10. [SPOILERS for Ghost Trick]



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11. [SPOILERS for Kick Ass 2]



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12. [SPOILERS for Haven]



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13. [SPOILERS for Spec Ops: The Line]



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14. [WARNING for rape]



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18. [WARNING for self-harm]

[Kill la Kill]










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Re: Random Thoughts, Advice, And Confessions.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-27 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
I am amazed at how the human heart works. There is this co-worker who was my indirect supervisor of mine for 3 years. Now we just deal with each other mostly through email. We've always seemed to be compatible with each other emotionally and sexually. We've never went there but there's a lot of heavy flirting within our work emails and he appears to meet me emotionally in nearly every situation. Similar backgrounds and he gets my humor and totally matches it, and I trust him not to be a dick or to take advantage of me. Yet.......as much as I'd hit it, as much as I admire and respect the fuck out of him as a man and a co-worker, I'm not emotionally attached to him in the slightest, and when he looks at me, there's no connection between us. And I think that's the reason I'm able to be so open and honest with him.

And then there's this other man. He seems to have feelings for me but there are also times when he's a champ at keeping me at arm's length. He's never been even a little inappropriate with me, and even though there's the "alone time" we have where we walk and talk and laugh so easily, where he seems to search me out, he gives me so much less than the other guy, emotionally speaking. And we have some epic awkward silences because I don't think we know how to talk to each other. But he's the one I'm emotionally caught up in.

I just wonder...why? Why this one guy and not the one I'd actually have a shot at a long term relationship with?

What the hell is wrong with my brain????

Re: Random Thoughts, Advice, And Confessions.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-27 05:57 am (UTC)(link)
It's probably the thrill of unpredictability and mystery with the second guy that keeps you around. He has moments of connection and then distance which probably keeps things interesting for you in this period of your life. His distance also creates an elusive nature, which can peak someone's curiosity. There also might be the thrill of chase going on for you, since he's not offering any relationship up so freely.

There's not really much to go on with this guy though. It could be that he likes to take things slow. Or he could be not that interested in a deeper relationship. But that's probably what adds the element of intrigue and guided attention to him from you.

You kind of already explained your reasons for the former guy. It's also probably due to waiting for so long. After a while, things become comfortable in not having a relationship

But I'm kind of talking out of my ass right now. I don't know you or how you feel. Buuut, this is what a lot of people feel when dealing with this sort of relationships.