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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-01 08:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2829 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2829 ⌋

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Sorry, work as usual.

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DA

(Anonymous) 2014-10-02 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Claiming that all anons who says things you don't like are actually the same anon so you can downplay their point is just as sad as stalking someone's tumblr. The simple fact is that Jay's meltdown over the love of OCs and the apologies which were not real apologies have not won her many friends and have pissed several people off. Stalking her tumblr is going too far, agreed, but playing 'guess the contrib who made the secret' is a well played game here. Just because people are guessing Jay this time is no reason to get your panties in a twist, virtually every other named contrib has been the subject of this and Jay is not a special snowflake to be exempt.

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2014-10-02 01:33 pm (UTC)(link)
You just replied to her other comment too and this whole harassing jaybie shit's gotten old, so don't really expect people to come running to play guess the contributor game when it's about her. Might not be fair or whatever, but most people are going avoid it when someone's been stalking her.

Different anon? what a joke

(Anonymous) 2014-10-02 08:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Please, stop trying to make it look like many people agree with you. The fact is that it's been a while since she's talked about her OCs on here.

Also on the "not real apologies", as if her follower hasn't done the same thing. Their idea of an "apology" is "well it's not REALLY stalking and if you don't want someone to follow you around and harass you then you should stop saying/ doing this"

Let's face it-

what she did: talked about her OCs in a thread

what the anon did: followed her around to almost every post she made to complain about her and aggressively make accusations. Also had several conniption fits about her just contributing to a conversation. Has not stopped starting drama about her even when she wasn't there.

As it stands anon's behavior has been worse and actually harassing to someone else to the point where they felt uncomfortable saying anything whereas Jaybie's actions, while annoying some people, have harmed none.

Quit white knighting yourself. There's a line and you crossed it a long time ago.

Re: Different anon? what a joke

(Anonymous) 2014-10-02 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I was the anon who said it wasn't really stalking and I take that back. It was stalking when I said it and still is. That anon's creepy and abusive as hell and I regret ever saying things that could be taken as support of them.

Also apologies to jaybie if she ends up reading this. You've been really good about this whole thing and I'm sorry you have to deal with someone so shitty.

Re: Different anon? what a joke

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-10-02 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you *hug* That means a lot to me.

I think I'll be okay. I'm working on improving my conversation skills to avoid misunderstandings in the future. Turns out cashiering- and making conversation while checking people out is excellent practice for that. :3

Re: Different anon? what a joke

(Anonymous) 2014-10-03 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad your cashier job's going well! Working with people is a great way to improve conversation, too. Hope that serves you well! :D

Re: Different anon? what a joke

[personal profile] jaybie_jarrett 2014-10-03 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you! <3

It's so nice to be working again, I missed it.

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2014-10-02 09:41 pm (UTC)(link)
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NeverMyFault

This is how you/the person you're white knighting comes across to be honest. They can stalk someone, harass someone, admit to hate-stalking their tumblr and you always come back to "well Jaybie...." somehow. You always have a reason why the person who's being harassed is "really just as bad as me"

Maybe people wouldn't suspect that you're the anon if you didn't constantly find a way to point the finger back at their target.

Why don't you accept responsibility for once?