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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-13 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2841 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2841 ⌋

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Re: I am PRO hitting kids

(Anonymous) 2014-10-14 09:08 am (UTC)(link)
...so you're trying to say that the fact that I took it really hard didn't actually happen, because no studies say so? My goodness, I'll just edit my emotions, shall I?

There's a huge difference between 'not fun' and my experience. Yes I would much rather be hit. Hitting ends quickly and wouldn't make me feel like I was too worthless to spend another moment in civilized company.

Re: I am PRO hitting kids

(Anonymous) 2014-10-14 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Hitting ends quickly - that's probably one of the biggest reason why it doesn't work as a deterrent. There's no learning, no amends, just a spurt of violence and then it's finished.

Whether or not kids like it, however, it is appropriate to put them in time out if they are not in control of themselves (hitting others, tantruming, etc).

Re: I am PRO hitting kids

(Anonymous) 2014-10-15 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, wow. What can I say, I'm glad you're so sensitive to an individual's needs.
As it happens, my parents hit me like... once in my life, to shock me out of doing something dangerous, and managed to educate me just fine without putting me in time-out. Because my parents recognized my needs as an individual and didn't subscribe to cookie-cutter parenting, as you seem to.

And again, you are 100% ignoring the fact that some kids could be emotionally hurt by being put in time out, beyond "not liking it". I mean obviously if it never happened to you it doesn't exit, amirite????

Also, for the record, neither I nor any of my siblings ever indulged in tantrums.