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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-18 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2846 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2846 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-10-18 08:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Rather a personal question, but if you're female, were you pegging him? Because I can certainly see the applicability.

(Anonymous) 2014-10-18 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Because slash = anal penetration.

No, it doesn't.
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[personal profile] erinptah 2014-10-18 09:28 pm (UTC)(link)
...but most of the other sex acts in slash can be done by an m/f couple, without the woman simulating typical male equipment. AYRT is asking if OP was a woman doing something with that particular edge, that's all.

(Dear OP: let your pervy kink fantasies run wild. I'm guessing you're female because men are encouraged to fantasize during sex, not treated as weird or shameful over it -- even though women are more likely to need it in order to reach orgasm.)

(Anonymous) 2014-10-18 10:34 pm (UTC)(link)
True, but, more often that not, slashy non-con is.

Op here

(Anonymous) 2014-10-18 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
No, I wasn't, though I'm not adverse to the act.

Re: Op here

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 04:58 am (UTC)(link)
Is your BF?

Re: Op here

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
"averse".

http://grammarist.com/usage/adverse-averse/

(Anonymous) 2014-10-18 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Better then mentally doing writing your grocery list I suppose.

[personal profile] solticisekf 2014-10-18 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
or you should incorporate it more. For fun times. ^_~

(Anonymous) 2014-10-18 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't have to tell your boyfriend what you were thinking about while you were having sex. There's no obligation to do that. You do whatever you need to do to get off. I just don't understand why this is a secret when a lot of people do the same thing.

(Anonymous) 2014-10-18 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh let them, OP. Boyfriend gets to think he's a great lover because you're getting off like gangbusters, and you've having a good time. Your fantasy life is your own, especially when your fantasies may or may not mesh with your current partner (in this case I'm referring to the statement that he wouldn't be okay with you fantasizing about non-con).

(Anonymous) 2014-10-18 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't see any problem. Everyone's happy and the only people getting hurt are fictional.

(Anonymous) 2014-10-18 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Eh, I've been doing this for years, slash, non-con, fanfic porny trope of the month, whatever gets you where you wanna go. Sometimes after reading a particularly fine sample of smut I'll go pounce on my unsuspecting other half. He doesn't care what stokes the fire, as long as he's the one ... (drumroll, please)...poking it.

As long as your fantasies are aiding and abetting your sexy times, not overshadowing them, go for it.

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
I don't tell my husband about what I think about when we have sex. I don't ask him what he thinks about. The sex is good, what does it matter?

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Thinking of other scenarios while having sex is actually pretty normal. Every time you have sex is not necessarily going to be red-hot, and fantasies will help get you there if the physical aspects aren't working for you at the time. Don't worry about it.

(Also, your fantasies are none of your bf's business unless you want him to know/join in.)

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
I've used sex to secretly work out the physical logistics of a scene before now.

I figure as long as no-one's feelings get hurt (and it's not as though I'm going to admit the above out loud any time soon. Or, you know. Ever.) and everyone gets something positive out of it then no harm done.

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 02:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I've used sex to secretly work out the physical logistics of a scene before now.

So have I!

Thank you

(Anonymous) 2014-10-21 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
This has happened to me more than once, and I was taught earlier in life to feel horribly guilty about fantasizing during sex with a partner. It makes me happy to see a secret about this, even thought I know it's normal for many people. :)