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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-22 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2850 ]


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Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, because calling people who fucking NEGLECT their kids "breeders" is OMG SO AWFUL. Because that's what they're doing -- if you don't give a shit how your kids behave and don't even fucking bother teaching them manners to help them get through life then you are a disgrace and don't deserve the title of "parent." You are a breeder. A parent actually takes care of their children.

Also, I hardly think anyone's going to be upset that I'm posting this on an anonymous message board. I'm not "blurting out every rude thought" to their faces. And you know what? The only people who are going to be upset about people judging them for their children's behavior are the people who don't bother to correct their children in the first place.

In which case, I HOPE they see what I wrote and feel ashamed of themselves.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
So can I call really shitty black people niggers, since they're really shitty?

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt

Color isn't a choice.

Being a shitty parent is.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
Color isn't a choice, but being a shitty person is. That's why it's "shitty black people" and not "black people." I wouldn't call all black people niggers, but a black person who's being shitty is choosing to be shitty.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
But why do you need to come up with another word for them in the first place? Just call them what they are: shitty parents. By calling them breeders you're implying that the problem is that they chose to have children rather than the fact that they aren't doing their job as parents.

Not every section of shitty people need their own word.
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Re: AYRT

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-10-23 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
this

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 07:52 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, no. I have a (now adult, now doing very well) son with autism. The amount of ignorant judgement I got from people just like you, because he looks "normal" and of course the only explanation was my bad parenting, needs to be chucked straight back in your face. Matey.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 10:48 am (UTC)(link)
Actually yeah. Because if your child has a condition that means he's susceptible to loss of control in situations where other children would be okay, then it is YOUR job as a parent not to put them in those situations in the first place. Do what is best for your kid. If your kid can't handle being in a restaurant -- then don't go to a restaurant. Can't handle being in a movie theater? Don't go to the movies. If your kid can't handle flying on an airplane, then don't plan a vacation that requires you to fly. It's that simple.

One of the most important things a parent can teach a child is that, in public, you show consideration to others. And if you're not capable of that, then it's time to leave.

NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 03:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh so, what now parents of children with disabilities who dare to go places with their kid are included in "shitty parents who don't even try?"

You're a piece of shit.

Quit pretending you have some moral high ground to judge and dehumanize people who don't appear to be good enough parents. Clearly YOUR parents should be included under your idea of "breeders" because they raised such a disgusting empathy-lacking excuse for a human being.

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 07:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I was ATRT, and although I don't like to express myself in quite those terms, I appreciate your support.

Re: NAYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 09:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah . You're welcome...

Sorry I was kinda over-angry about it. I have autistic family members so it hit close to home.

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2014-10-23 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
So the answer is never to let them out of the house? Because that is what it would take.Therefore they never learn to cope with everyday stuff and they remain terribly disabled all their lives. Yes, what a wonderful notion.

Now I'm going to stop talking to you because the level of your ignorance and arrogance is quite astonishing, you are a deeply unpleasant and stupid person, and I have better things to do.