[ SECRET POST #2861 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2861 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

32% isn't a majority.

[dreemyweird]

Uhh, it may be?

[(Anonymous)]

Did you read the article? It explains the numbers change according to the terminology used because if you're imagining you/your proxy being lovingly "raped" then you are not really imagining them being raped. The fantasy is to be dominated and to be the object of another's desire because they are completely taken with you, not to be actually traumatized and harmed, which is what rape is in real life as well as in most people's minds.

[(Anonymous)]

But that's not actually a rape fantasy. It's a domination fantasy.

[(Anonymous)]

I witnessed this very comm bitching many times that everything that had someone saying "no" or showing otherwise refusal and being forced to sex was RAPE, even if they enjoyed it, even the author didn't treat it as rape, and if the author didn't treat it as rape that was RAPE CULTURE. What's with the sudden change of tune?

[(Anonymous)]

...because I'm one person, not the entire comm?

[(Anonymous)]

DA The distinction comes from how the person/victim treats it. It's possible to get off, and therefore enjoy sex in a physical sense, and still consider it rape. This is a pretty common experience of male victims, it can play a role in their possible reluctance to report it, as well as society's reaction to it.

How the author treats it is another issue, but it can cause problems for real people in the real world.

[(Anonymous)]

Not really. Women's smut is written for women's enjoyment. If some people are stupid that is their problem and their fault, not the author's or his/her readers' who understand what they are doinh, have no problem with it and should not be deprived of their enjoyment because of the actions of strangers - who they have no control over and are not responsible for. You're responsible for yourself, no one is for you.

[(Anonymous)]

No, this comm bitched whenever the "rape" was not a rape at all. Which always baffled me because I always understood I was reading something made to turn me on and give ME feels and make ME happy, your average woman with these fantasies.

[(Anonymous)]

Would you use that distinction if this was a discussion about someone saying their rape scene was "only domination fantasy"?

[(Anonymous)]

This community is notorious for its hypocrisy.