[ SECRET POST #2861 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2861 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 052 secrets from Secret Submission Post #409.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

I'm judging your opinion (your original secret), and your responses (the comments you've made to others), which are the only things I have to go on and the only things you present. I don't know you, therefore cannot judge you.

You, however, based on your opinion and responses, are judging an entire swathe of people based on their taste. Or, more accurately, based on the fact that they prefer something different to you. And yes, I do think that's a pretty problematic thing to express, anon or not.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

It comes across pretty hard that you're judging me as a person, especially considering you said that I'd be happier and nicer if I changed to suit you.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Except no one said that. Suggesting a change of perspective on one single issue =/= judging you as a person. You're the one inferring that.

Reread your posts: to an objective and impartial stranger, do you think your tone or words convey either happy or nice?

It really sounds like you're having a hard time differentiating between having your opinions judged and/or challenged -- which is 100% valid -- and being judged yourself. If that's the case I feel for you, but forums like this may not be the best place for you.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

"They'd be much happier, and I'd wager nicer to be around, than they seem right now."

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

seem
intransitive verb \ˈsēm\

: to appear to be something or to do something : to have a quality, appearance, etc., that shows or suggests a particular characteristic, feeling, etc.

—used with it to make a statement about what appears to be true based on what is known

Full Definition of SEEM

1 : to appear to the observation or understanding
2 : to give the impression of being