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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-03 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2862 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2862 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
"Now, if they simply don't care about anyone else half as much -- because, say, they happen to live a life where everyone else around them is an asshole/untrustworthy/dangerous/corrupt or if they have some kind of secret that forces them to stop themselves from forming emotional attachments to anyone else, "

I think that's incredibly disingenuous. People do not care about those close to them with the same level of intensity. There are people they are about more, and people they care about less, and there isn't anything wrong with that. It's normal. And for you to go hyperbolic about it and present it as some either/or thing is ridiculous, hurtful, and completely beside the point, which is simply that loving someone deeply doesn't make you incapable of loving someone else deeply.
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[personal profile] intrigueing 2014-11-04 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
loving someone deeply doesn't make you incapable of loving someone else deeply.

But...that was exactly my point?

Anyway, sorry, perhaps I didn't word this clearly: I didn't mean that if you love a special someone more than you love any other person, that's unhealthy.

What I meant was if you are INCAPABLE of EVER loving anyone even HALF as much as that special someone, then that's unhealthy.

Emphasis on all the capitalized words, especially "incapable."