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Re: Comments on weight/appearance (possible TW maybe?)
(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 04:57 am (UTC)(link)Exactly. I could handle it when it was people I know well (and to be honest, even then made me a *little* uncomfortable because I don't like drawing attention to myself), but for this lady I barely know to do it in such a weird way, it just made me uncomfortable. I told my mom about it and she didn't get it at all, just told me that I was being being ridiculous, and losing weight is one of the greatest things a woman could do and I have no right to be bothered by the lady's comments. Like you said, I felt like it was polite to not comment on other people's weight and told her that and she went on about how losing weight was always so wonderful no matter what and how could I not be thrilled by what that lady said? Which kind of bothered me as well, but she obviously has a pretty screwed up outlook on weight.
I don't know, I'm rambling now, but yeah, I'm starting to think people need to just keep their mouth shut about other people's weight when it's not someone they know well.