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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-03 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2862 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2862 ⌋

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Re: Comments on weight/appearance (possible TW maybe?)

(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
OP

The weird thing is that she puts zero effort into her appearance. (Normally I wouldn't even comment on this sort of thing, but since she feels the need to constantly comment on my appearance, and you're bringing up this angle, I will.) Her hair is always greasy and unwashed-looking, I've never seen her wear anything other than yoga pants and a t-shirt, and she doesn't wear any makeup and has pretty bad skin. This probably sounds horribly shallow, and I don't think a woman owes it society to try to look as attractive as possible or anything; if that's not her priority that's fine, but when she's always saying judgy things about how I look I kind of feel like it's fair game.

It's weird but I guess I just have to chalk it up to She Has Issues and leave it at that because it just doesn't make sense otherwise.
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Re: Comments on weight/appearance (possible TW maybe?)

[personal profile] othellia 2014-11-04 08:28 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that's probably for the best.

The woman I'm actually drawing from is my grandma. She wakes up, eats breakfast, and then spends several hours sitting in front of the big picture window in her front room, staring out onto the street and making comments about each family that lives there as they/their car goes past.

She also looks like an absolute mess inside the house and a somewhat mess when she does her errand shopping, but spends nearly an hour doing her makeup and hair alone when she goes out to bingo. Effort put in is relative to your social circle.

Maybe she sees your office as a "safe place" so to speak? *shrugs*

Does suck though, and I'm sorry that you have to put up with it.