[ SECRET POST #2867 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2867 ⌋

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Comments

[nyxelestia]

I'm not going to lie, I don't even take 'abuse' or 'bullying' warnings on Tumblr or most fanfics seriously, these days, because apparently everything other than 100% supportiveness and niceness is abuse or bullying. It's creating a vicious cycle, too, where people can't handle mild insult or constructive criticism because they've been raised to interpret those things as abusive behaviors all their lives.

[ketita]

It's true. While I get that not everybody wants concrit, I've noticed people getting really defensive over anything that remotely sounds like criticism, or like you say, freaking out over even mild insults.
Bullying and abuse are both serious issues, and they definitely need awareness and systems to take care of them.
But sometimes I see this posts about how "oh my parents are mistreating me so bad" and I just... it's not remotely mistreatment.
Sometimes people just need to grow a thicker skin.

[nyxelestia]

I just gave up after a saw a Tumblr post with someone complaining about the mistreatment from their parents because their Internet access and time was cut down due to bad grades. -_-

[ketita]

I've seen posts how because parents don't take interest in the kid's fandom (like, squeeing over whatever character's perfection)or want to listen to them talk about it endlessly they're mistreating them.

[nyxelestia]

...

*headdesk*