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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-08 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2867 ]


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Re: Topics you hate.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-09 03:04 pm (UTC)(link)
There's no set progression from masturbating to making out to frottage to oral to vaginal/anal. Your experiences with one particular sex act stand on their own. I had sex, and then a few years after I stopped having it again, I finally started feeling comfortable in my own skin wrt my sexual wants.

Yes, the physicality of being touched by another person is definitely different. I wouldn't gauge it to be automatically superior. Some things feel better when I do them, some things feel better when a partner does them. In general, the partial unexpectedness of stimulation from a partner is definitely a different kind of sexual experience than the things you can do to yourself - but then again, the reverse is true. A partner can never quite react to your sensory input the way you can. They're different, and as someone who's had sex and who currently wanks a lot, I can't say I prefer one over the other solidly.

From the emotional angle, there's something powerful and cool about getting someone else off (not so much about getting come in your eye, but I digress). Then again, actually focusing on myself - not on getting off, but just on spending a few hours with nice music and a candle, making myself feel good? Acknowledging that I don't need a reason to do this other than because I want to? That can be pretty powerful stuff.

If you really want to have sex with partners, I wish you good luck with that and hope you collect some amazing experiences and impressions. Just don't think you're somehow incomplete because it hasn't happened for you yet.