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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-09 04:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2868 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2868 ⌋

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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dreemyweird: (austere)

Re: OP - Sorry, I'll stop

[personal profile] dreemyweird 2014-11-09 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
IDK, I've had some very interesting and long discussions here. I guess it all depends on the topic - some parts of fandom are less welcoming when it comes to epic discussion threads; others are more welcoming. It's not a general f!s issue.

And then good long discussions are actually a pretty rare thing in themselves. You need to find really intelligent and mature people to be able to have conversations like this.

>It was very much a "LOOK AT ME, HERE'S MY PITY PARTY, WOE IS ME" type thing, huh?

that's probably why people jumped at you, yes. You may not be actually bitter, but you did sound like you were. You don't look like a troll to me, so I'm assuming you just handled the situation awkwardly. Which is, well, a thing that happens. I'm glad you aren't stressed out about it, at least.

Re: OP - Sorry, I'll stop

(Anonymous) 2014-11-10 11:13 am (UTC)(link)
F!s is about sharing fandom related secrets but Op didn't like the secret saying something negative about their ship, so they started wanking about the ship THEY don't like all over the thread and tried to convince OP and anyone commenting that they should dislike the other ship instead, and not theirs that is superior. It's fine but I did see other shippers here getting mocked here for much less and this is not what happened to this spirk person.
If you DO have petty shipper wars in secrets that weren't about that, then don't complain when people notice you might be wanking just a little bit there.

No one insulted them, no one shared their opinion more than them. But they now they want us to tell them they were right and not immature.
They are asking us to defend them in the thread and seek validation. Plain and simile.