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fandomsecrets2014-11-14 06:56 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2873 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2873 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Naruto]
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05. [ SPOILERS for Doctor Who ]
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06. [ SPOILERS for Doctor Who ]
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07. [ SPOILERS for Doctor Who ]
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08. [ SPOILERS for Spartacus ]
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09. [ WARNING for suicide ]
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10. [ WARNING for child abuse ]
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11. [ WARNING for child porn ]
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12. [ WARNING for sexual assault ]
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13. [ WARNING for rape ]
[Doctor Who]
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14. [ WARNING for rape ]
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15. [ WARNING for rape ]
[Days of Our Lives]
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16. [ WARNING for rape ]
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17. [ WARNING for rape ]
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18. [ WARNING for incest ]
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19. [ WARNING for suicide ]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #410.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: tw: murder
(Anonymous) 2014-11-15 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)sorry, I'm the anon who made the post with the tw for murder, then deleted the paragraph about the murder but forgot to delete the tw. I wasn't the brightest crayon in the box last night--should've at least posted "sa" to eliminate the confusion.
And yes, it was knee-jerk victim-blaming, but that's how people of a certain age thought about it, if nobody bothered to challenge them. My mom is better about it now, but growing up, I heard a lot of disempowering, victim-blaming statements from female relatives of that generation. Don't go out after dark, don't go for walks alone, if you let a guy into your apartment you've lost the right to say no; if someone wants to rape you there's nothing you can do to stop him, so you need to be "sensible" (i.e., live a pretty circumscribed life). There was also the idea that if you moved out of your parents' house into your own place, in your own home town, the only possible reason was that you were going to pick up men and bring them home to fuck.
And this, from women who encouraged me to study anything and pursue any career I wanted, and made sure I knew I didn't have to put up with abusive shit in a relationship.