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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-21 06:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #2880 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2880 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02. [repeat]


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[Sleepy Hollow]


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[/r/nosleep, nosleep podcast]


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[Awful Hospital]


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09. [ SPOILERS for Lewis/Inspector Lewis ]




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10. [ SPOILERS for Empowered ]



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11. [ WARNING for abuse ]

[Megatokyo]


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12. [ WARNING for child abuse/sexual abuse ]

[Adventure Time, Lena Dunham]


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13. [ WARNING for rape? probably? ]




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14. [ WARNING for incest ]

[Gotham]


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15. [ WARNING for abuse ]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #411.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
This is most likely a troll. But if it isn't? OP, you do not want to date a bad boy in real life. Fantasy allows fans to daydream about Sephiroth, Sauske, and Grimmjow and whatever scenarios seem interesting involving them with no consequences because at the end of the day they don't exist. Their fucked up problems don't exist. Their abuse that you would suffer if they were real does not exist. A real bad boy however is different. They are manipulative, abusive, selfish, toxic, and will drain you once the shine of their first impression wears off.

Past the age of 18, bad boys in real life are losers and sociopaths who end up in jail or are heading there real soon. They have no future and will suck you into their bullshit if you stay around them long enough to fall for their manipulation.

Also a genuinely nice dude is not automatically a wimp because he doesn't hit you when you act out of control. There's a difference between having integrity by taking the higher road and being a complete pushover.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
And what makes you think women can't be sociopaths too?

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
na

where did they say that?

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
OP says she'd be abusive with a little shit she hates and he says "act out of control", implying he doesn't think women can really be abusive even when they hate someone.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
And where did I say that ever? OP was talking about dating bad boys, so I focused on why it's really stupid to choose them. Please stop derailing for your own agenda.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Nobody will still choose you.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Lol, what a cute little troll. But tbf, you already lost this bet since I've been in a happy long term relationship for three years.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 05:51 pm (UTC)(link)
This is not Pokemon

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
Would you be okay with a woman belittling you, hitting you, taking your money and cheating on you? If so, we can have a relationship. No sex though, that's for guys I actually like.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
You should start a thread in the GC section if you're really keen on seeking a relationship with someone here. As for me, I'm taken and I don't go for abusive women who sound like they meet the criteria for a sociopath.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
Then shoo and don't waste my time with useless advice.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
Hon, for your own sake I hope your parents talk some sense into you. Toodles!

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Dude, there's like a million cuckold-fetish stories, images, and insanely racist cartoons out there. Don't go cluttering this place up with your fantasies.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
I agree completely with your response, but I think you may just be baiting a troll here. and sure enough, no one else was taking OP seriously so she jumped on you to be noticed. :-/ What a weird troll, too, idgi.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
Ayrt. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it's a troll. Though there are some underaged people who still believe this notion that bad boys make great companions, sadly. So unfortunately it wouldn't surprise me if it was a real confession. Even more sad is when adults haven't grown out of it. I knew someone who was in college and thought the bad boy she was dating would change and how he called her special; fast forward a few months later and he's treating her like shit while she's regretting ever meeting him. Can't prevent it all, but it's good to reach out to a naive guy or girl out there who might listen before it's too late.