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Demon cat
(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)But it can be very aggressive. It will run around her house jumping on everything. It attacks her. It will randomly claw or bite her. It had gotten on top of her head and bitten at her hair. It will sometimes jump at the dog.
She has other bad habits like getting on counters, stealing food, and has dragged her poop out of the litter box. She does not mind water so a squirt bottle does not help at all.
Any advice.
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(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Demon cat
Does anything on this site seem applicable? http://messybeast.com/nervous.htm Particularly the subheading about rough play.
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(Anonymous) 2014-11-22 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Demon cat
(Anonymous) 2014-11-23 12:04 am (UTC)(link)Kittens have a crapload of energy and need somewhere to channel it. Toys that mimic prey like ping-pong balls and toy mice or birds are good for that, and so is playing with her with something like a laser pointer or a ribbon toy.
For biting/clawing, it's often recommended to firmly tell the kitten no, move them, and distract them with a toy. Or if they do it during playtime, to stop playing and ignore them for a while. This worked for one of mine, but I only trained the other kitten not to bite by hissing at her and then ignoring her when she did it.
My kittens still spend a lot of time wrestling and play-attacking each other, which could be what her kitten is trying to do. It can look very aggressive. But if it seems like genuine aggression or she's doing it all the time or your sister is just worried, I'd discuss it with kitten's vet.
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(Anonymous) 2014-11-23 12:05 am (UTC)(link)Re: Demon cat
Maybe drop the whole "squirt her with a bottle of water" because it sounds like she doesn't give a flying poop about water. When my dog misbehaved I would just ignore her and clean up. Her punishment was to be on time-out for 30-45 seconds and then take her out. If she did it again then time-out again until they learn. Also lots of patience.
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(Anonymous) 2014-11-23 01:03 am (UTC)(link)This isn't to say that it's inappropriate to start training for things like not sitting on the counter/stealing food. If the squirt bottle doesn't work, then dominance tactics might: blowing in the kitten's face; growling and hissing (sounds silly, but it works); brief periods of physical restraint.
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(Anonymous) 2014-11-23 02:42 am (UTC)(link)Re: Demon cat
(Anonymous) 2014-11-23 08:38 pm (UTC)(link)I giggled when I read "turd hockey" and then started wondering why cat toy manufacturers haven't made fake cat poop toys for these critters (and dogs).
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(Anonymous) 2014-11-23 03:16 am (UTC)(link)Re: Demon cat
(Anonymous) 2014-11-23 03:48 am (UTC)(link)(If you're uncertain, cats will usually vocalise with growling/hissing/etc if they're aggressive; cats that are playing are quiet or will meow/purr.)
In either case, your sister can likely solve a lot of your problems by engaging the cat in more structured play. She's still working out how to attack/kill things at this age, and that's what cat playtime is all about - mock agggression. So use toys that encourage her to stalk, leap, pounce, etc. Don't just give her a toy and watch her bat it around - make her work to get at it. The more your sister makes her work, the more energy she expends, and the less inclined she'll be to test her claws and teeth on your sister's head.
Play-biting might take a little longer to resolve, since cats that age don't have the experience to realise our fragile human skin isn't like theirs. Make a habit of removing the cat from your lap/presence with a firm "No" if she bites. If she's on your lap, just stand up and let her jump off - as far as possible, try not to handle her at this point, or your might provoke more biting. Try not to flail, jump, etc - just get her on the floor and ignore her (leave the room if she keeps coming back). She'll get it eventually; just be patient and consistent.
Oh, and don't allow the cat to use your hands and feet as toys! They'll do that pretty naturally, because our limbs move and dangle, and are just the right size to attack. If she does that, redirect with a toy (so it's probably a good idea for your sister to keep stashes of toys in each room of the house!).
Never tried this before, but apparently clapping your hands loudly can startle a pouncing cat into stopping, at which point you use a toy to redirect their attention. Squirt bottles and the like are not a solution in and of themselves - they're just a way to get the cat to stop for a moment so you can get her to focus on something else. (Again, your sister might want to keep a toy at all times for this purpose.)
Good luck to your sis!