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fandomsecrets2014-11-30 03:45 pm
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Re: DA
(Anonymous) 2014-12-01 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)Neverthless, I think saying that is =/= saying "if you ship slash instead of het you're automatically sexist" maybe because, usually, 'pushing female characters aside' means belittling and/or deliberately writing the canon girlfriend out as insignificant for the sake of making another male character seem superior to them. It's writing them out of their scenes with their boyfriend just to make them about your ship instead.
It's saying that you find the idea of your fave cis male character loving a woman 'ridiculous' and impossible to believe, but you have no issues with other slash fans shipping him with other male characters even if it's not your ship either.
Re: DA
(Anonymous) 2014-12-01 12:19 pm (UTC)(link)Re: DA
(Anonymous) 2014-12-01 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)IS homophobic because you are prioitizing heterosexual relationships over homosexual ones and, given the prevalence of canon het relationships in fiction, you are further denying people the ability to enjoy the depiction of homosexual couples in fanfiction.
It's none if that.
It's just saying that you can ship slash without having to pretend that the female character is nothing for her boyfriend or she's delusional or, the worst, insisting that the girlfriend must support your ship or die. It's the insistence that every scene is about your ship, even those where the male character is interacting with his girlfriend or even professing his love to her, because there is just no way he can care about a woman when he must have eyes only for this guy he just met or who is his friend.
That is pushing aside women in favor of another man and that can be sexist especially when it becomes a habit
Also, It seems that some people consider valid homosexual couples only those with gay men and ignore lesbians or the concept that the guys might be bi or pan.
Re: DA
(Anonymous) 2014-12-01 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)If you are bashing female characters then it is sexist. But looking for support for your ship is not. All shippers do it and to single out slash fans or femmeslash fans is homophobic.