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[ SECRET POST #2897 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2897 ⌋

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All of them.

Dubcon. Power imbalances in relationships.

Yeah, dubcon and noncon for obvious reasons.

Re: Kinks you have in fiction that you don't have IRL?

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Hardcore BDSM. I do have a D/s kink in real life, but it is much more mild. I consider myself vanilla kinky. But I do love reading the really hardcore stuff (and writing it).

Well non-con is like the huge obvious one. Even when I dabbled with D/s, even with safewords, some of the stuff I can read about in fiction I'd nope out of in real life.

And slash is a difficult one, because I can never have sex with a man while in the body of a man myself.

Omorashi. irl it makes me uncomfortable. and it's not even a sexual kink (narrative i guess), i'm asexual, but i love it in fic.

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Knotting in ABO universes. In fic it hits all my buttons. In RL though nope nope nope.

Genderbender happiness. Yeah, trans*ness in all its myriad forms rarely ends in happiness, shopping trips, wild sexual adventures, and happiness in a forced gender!role and I recognize that. I work hard to be a good ally. However, in fiction, guy turned and trapped into girl form is hot and I just want to move onto using genitally-appropriate pronouns as soon as possible. Fiction: allowing you to enjoy things that are un-enjoyable in our drab "real" life.

Re: Kinks you have in fiction that you don't have IRL?

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Incest, rape, A/O/B, chivalry, male lactation, soulmate

Lol like 98% of them. I can handle light bondage/blindfolds irl but anything more than that I can't take seriously, even though I love extreme bondage in fic. I really can't talk any sort of role-playing, even just dominant/submissive, seriously at all, I would just start cracking jokes, laughing, and getting turned off. I'd probably get annoyed if someone actually tried to dirty talk me.

Most of my kinks are just impractical - like mpreg, vampires and rape fantasies.

The best I can say is I like a little bit of rough-housing before sex (with the right person) and toys. but nothing too silly.

Knifeplay. In real life, I'd be too worried about an accident.

Most of them.

H/C. In real life, hurt just sucks.

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Less a kink and more of an act, but rimming. Doing it safely in real life is so unsexy, but it's nice in fic.

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Consensual sibling incest or twincest, in a few cases. It is a sure-fire nope to hear about IRL.

And for the record, I do not have any siblings or even any cousins close in age to me.

Double stuffing. Any hole.

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Noncon
Bdsm
D/s

I'll read it but I'm uninterested in it visually or irl

Gratuitously creepy gory medical roleplay, preferably incorporating blood and knives. I'd totally panic thirty seconds in IRL, but it's hot in fiction.

all of them. I have never had sex, feel no inclination to ever have sex, and am about as romantic as a chair. But damn have I got a lot of kinks in fic, from BDSM to ooey gooey soulmate AUs.

Pretty much all of them, frankly.

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(Anonymous) - 2014-12-09 04:19 (UTC) - Expand

Master/slave dynamics. I love M/s in fic and erotica in general, and it's my favorite fantasy to the point where I've done worldbuilding on it (I've talked about that here before). But IRL, I couldn't do it. BDSM is fine, M/s isn't.

Injury kink, xenophilia, femdom (as in, don't want to participate as giver or receiver, it's purely a spectator sport for me), twincest.

I write lots of original romance/horror/etc. stuff featuring couples who were totally meant to be, not like the special effects soulmate things everybody complains about here, but the relationship is very special and central to the story and they work through mostly external problems to stay together forever and ever. IRL, I have zero interest in dating anymore and am baffled to horrified by most relationships I've seen, lol. I used to assume I'd get married someday, but I'm way too introverted and set in my ways to deal with another person that closely day after day. And another person's family, ugh. I don't even want to deal with my own most of the time. I love to hear people's stories, though, haha. My sister is dating a guy with a really weird brother and a snobby, intrusive mom and I'm just amazed every time she vents about them. I watch shows like Dr. Phil for more, it's a wonderful comedy/horror series for introverts.

Incest is the one that immediately pops to mind.

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