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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-17 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2906 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2906 ⌋

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Re: Cheating is entirely selfish

(Anonymous) 2014-12-18 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
You could be in a loveless or abusive marriage and unable to leave because of... fear for your own safety...

Here's what gets me with that fictional scenario: what is the scenario where cheating is significantly less risky than leaving the aforementioned loveless / abusive marriage

Re: Cheating is entirely selfish

(Anonymous) 2014-12-18 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, this.
sabotabby: (doom doom doom)

Re: Cheating is entirely selfish

[personal profile] sabotabby 2014-12-18 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
And yet people do it IRL. Eh. People are complicated.

Re: Cheating is entirely selfish

(Anonymous) 2014-12-18 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Cheating, you can keep secret; leaving not so much.

Re: Cheating is entirely selfish

(Anonymous) 2014-12-18 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
And if you get the courage to cheat in an abusive relationship, it might help you to find the courage to eventually leave.

Re: Cheating is entirely selfish

(Anonymous) 2014-12-18 06:07 am (UTC)(link)
And give you a place to go when you do.

Re: Cheating is entirely selfish

(Anonymous) 2014-12-22 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
And that's dangerous in itself- abusers often sense victims and gravitate towards. I've seen friends thinking they've found a great guy who has rescued them when actually they are on parr or worse. Only now the person really can't do much about it. Frying pan...fryer situation.