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fandomsecrets2014-12-17 06:51 pm
[ SECRET POST #2906 ]
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Total TMI, consider yourself warned
I'm going to speak personally. I'm starting to realize that my issues with body image are a lot more massive than I thought. That's definitely related to why I kept seeking out stuff about transformations--werewolves, genderbend, anything and everything that involved someone changing and being happier for it. Problem is, most transformation porn is really, really rapey, so I kept reading stuff that sickened me because it was the closest thing I could find to stuff I actually wanted.
Actually, I may as well drop another caveat: what a person wants in porn seems to reflect their earliest experiences, not necessarily the person they've become. I saw one writer talk about submitting in BDSM as something she's into because she had it drilled into her in at a young age that she wasn't supposed to like or enjoy sex. This specific individual* roleplays being forced, because it gets uncomfortable if she shows active consent during the act itself. The person she is now is definitely not a misogynist or a slut-shamer--she's just carrying baggage from earlier days, and that's okay.
* I want to be clear that I'm only talking about her here, based on the things she's said. I'm not discussing BDSM in general.
Re: Total TMI, consider yourself warned
(Anonymous) 2014-12-18 01:39 am (UTC)(link)Re: Total TMI, consider yourself warned