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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-17 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2906 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2906 ⌋

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Re: unpopular opinions

(Anonymous) 2014-12-18 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

I'm married, we've been together eleven years, and trust me, my feelings are incredibly strong. But even at the beginning, the whole time, I had my friends and family and interests, as she did too. Being singularly obsessed with your SO isn't unhealthy in the "I'll kill you if things don't go my was" way, it's unhealthy in the isolating way, and it doesn't mean that your feelings are any more strong or pure than those that have their own separate lives in addition to their relationships.

Re: unpopular opinions

(Anonymous) 2014-12-18 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

I've been married 20 years, two kids, and we're not sewn at the hip. Strong attachments and feelings don't isolate me, so please don't assume that. I had my interests, friends, and family when we met, when we married, and I still have them.