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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-17 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2906 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2906 ⌋

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diet_poison: (Default)

Re: unpopular opinions

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-12-18 04:55 am (UTC)(link)
I think it should be clarified that since you're in an open marriage, your spouse seeing someone else wouldn't actually be cheating.
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Re: unpopular opinions

[personal profile] a_potato 2014-12-18 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah, absolutely! I more meant to say that, while "cheating" in the sense of being with other people isn't an issue for me (because, as you say, it's not cheating for me), I can definitely see why it's an issue for others. I can identify with that sense of betrayal, and it seems like OP might not be able to, which is where the disconnect comes from.

(Tangentially, I also think that what counts as cheating is kind of something that has to be negotiated. Everyone has a different line, and it's important in a relationship to respect your partner's line)
Edited 2014-12-18 05:08 (UTC)