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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-12-20 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2909 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2909 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-12-20 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
"You should have kids because I'm infertile and want them but can't have them!"

This is how you sound. It is literally the same argument.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-20 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
thiiiiiis

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
Dude but people do this. I'm 30 and I'm certain of the fact that I don't want kids, and my sister-in-law is unfortunately infertile. It's heartbreaking for her, and I do my best to be there for her, but she literally always manages to spin every conversation into me having kids so she can have someone "at least a little biological" to dote on. When I say my mind is set on no, she freaks out on me, actually screaming and crying about how selfish and worthless I am to "throw away the gift [I've] been given."

Which, yes, is exactly how the above anon sounds. Don't do that, anon. You're hurting yourself as much as you are others.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, similar. Except not sister. But I know this pain. Which is why it came to mind so fast.

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Ugh, my sympathies. Here's to the (hopefully) eventual healing of those we care about, and us surviving the brunt of it. *hug*

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
What's even weirder is when this argument is coming from someone who's not infertile and already has kids. "What about all the infertile women who can't have them?" Well, I doubt their lives will be radically improved because some random woman they may not even know had

(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
*had a baby.