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fandomsecrets2014-12-21 03:45 pm
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(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)Uh, guess my comment wasn't clear. I mean they say that in real life many guys don't do much prep and use spit, while most slash writers always include loads of both and some think 3 fingers + a bottle of lube is the only way to do anal.
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(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)Yes, I know, and I don't have any issues with that in slash, I wasn't dissing it. Just saying that some people read that trope and think it's how it must work in RL.
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(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 10:04 pm (UTC)(link)Yes, this. I've seen people engage in a huge wankfest (on fanficrants I think) about how much prep is really necessary and were 100% basing their argument on all the damn fanfic they'd read. Because if it's in fic, it MUST be accurate...
I mean, I really enjoy reading about loving descriptions of careful prep and all the fingers and messy lube (it's mostly the fingering, I'll admit) in my fic - but... that's not what I enjoy in real life when it comes to actually having anal sex. IRL it's like, prep? What prep? Stick the damn thing in already...
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(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)The "which is it" comment was by the anon I replied to, though.
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(Anonymous) 2014-12-21 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2014-12-22 03:44 am (UTC)(link)and in fanfics if the top knows the bottom is a virgin and doesn't at least attempt to prep first, I'm going to think he's an asshole
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(Anonymous) 2014-12-22 04:28 am (UTC)(link)