[ SECRET POST #359 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #359 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS. Also, one possibly triggering image!

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Comments

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Guess we'll just have to disagree on that, then: I mean, I've found some feminists pretty damn offensive in the past, and I'm all for equality and stuff -- for me, it definitely wasn't the message, it was the way they went about it. Condescending, why don't you know this already, etc etc -- and half the time they weren't even talking to me, I was on their side, and I still got offended for the sake of the people they were addressing. So some of those people HAVE been offending people with their behavior and not their message.

I don't think she meant "prove they're worthy" as in "they're not worthy UNTIL they pass a test" but more like "SHOW others that they ALWAYS WERE WORTHY" (isn't that the whole idea?) because until people are shown, it's hard to get people to believe (and like someone else - maybe you - said, a lot of people just don't CARE, so it's the feminists that have to take the first step). And to rage about it is NOT the best way to show them? And I have been talking to her about this, so I'm pretty sure that was the original intent, NOT like the whole "unworthy until proven" thing that people seem to be taking it as. Like a matter of bad wording, not conflicting ideas.

I just lost my train of thought

>> "let's talk this over and make progress in courts and work with the system and get people sympathetic to our cause in positions of power to change things"

[sarolynne.livejournal.com]

I don't think she meant "prove they're worthy" as in "they're not worthy UNTIL they pass a test" but more like "SHOW others that they ALWAYS WERE WORTHY"

But that's my point. You cannot show people who are really biased against you that you always were worthy. If they were going to see that, they would have already seen it. You always were, and they didn't see it magically when it was their sisters and wives and daughters and mothers. This is not all men, any more than you mean all feminists when you say bitchy, cunty feminists, but it is an attitude that characterizes men as a group to greater and lesser degrees, every time they participate in sexist behavior. These are people whose minds you can't change, and so you do, in fact, have to demand.